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1) Don't use taskmanager. Use Performance Monitor.
2) Use Profiler. Find long queries. Copy and paste into Management Studio. Take a look of execution plan. If you can't read a execution plan, run DTA to find if any indexes are necessary.
Do this in testing database.
3) Test the query with and without new indexes. If duration is significant less than before, you can apply those indexes in production.
4) Repeat 2) and 3) for each long queries.
Remember this: if you apply new indexes, to improve one query, may be the new indexes improve also others queries.
So, smalls moves and test again.
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